Use scaling questions to make motivation visible
Asking clients to rate their readiness or confidence on a 0–10 scale turns abstract motivation into something tangible — and opens a conversation about exactly what would move the needle.
Why this matters
When a client says "I want to change", how much do they mean it? When they seem stuck, are they unmotivated — or just unconfident? Scaling questions give both coach and client a shared language for exploring motivation that would otherwise stay vague and unexamined.
The follow-up questions are what make scaling genuinely powerful. Asking "Why a 6 and not a 2?" invites the client to articulate their reasons for change — which is change talk. Asking "What would move you from a 6 to an 8?" invites them to identify what's missing. Asking about importance separately from confidence often reveals where the real obstacle lies — a client who is highly motivated but low in confidence needs a very different response from a coach than one who is the reverse.
In practice
A client keeps saying they want to lose weight but isn't following through. Coach assumes motivation is low. Scaling question: "On a scale of 0 to 10, how important is this change to you?" Client: "Eight." Coach: "And how confident are you that you can do it?" Client: "About three." Now the coach knows the problem isn't importance — it's confidence. The entire conversation shifts from "how do we motivate you?" to "what would make this feel more achievable?" Same client, completely different coaching.
Try it today
In your next check-in, ask two scaling questions: "How important is this goal to you, on a scale of 0 to 10?" and "How confident are you that you can achieve it?" Then ask: "What would need to change to move your confidence up by just one point?"
Make it a habit
Use a quick scale as a standard start-of-session check-in: "Where are you this week on [goal], 0 to 10?" Track the numbers over time. A client who is consistently at a 4 is telling you something important that needs addressing before results can follow.
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